LOVE

LOVE

Love

I wonder if someone could suggest me a good Anti-Virus to tackle with a deadly Trojan Virus affecting my brain... The virus doesn't have a known set of symptoms but according to certain known facts, its considered as a destructive program that masquerades as a Good Feeling in one's Life, but in actual its an unexpected insidious pain. The Virus Name is Love. Unlike other viruses or worms, it do not replicate itself, but it can be just as destructive. 

- P.S. Need Help!

–Sunny Dhanoe

That was exactly how i felt when i first fell in love. Being an IT Engineer by profession, i felt love as an unwanted disturbing phenomenon when it first happened to me. But later with time my definition for love changed completely. 
One of my friend describes love as,

“Love is the beautiful cause and hurt is the menacing effect, and the lovely/scary/funny fact is that they are a couple and are soul mates” 

–Avinash Thakur

Well i completely agree with Avinash... Love brings happiness in ones life, but it also brings many other unwanted things along with it. So let me explain you what love actually means....

Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, 

but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, 

be lost in it, and among all, never… never forget it.
Curtis Judalet

It is the most innate feeling experienced by every human being at some or the other point of time in life. Loving and being loved makes us imagine a world around us, where we find ourselves walking on the beach hand in hand, watching television, sharing work, or in that case, growing old together. We start living the future.

Love is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality.
Viktor E. Frankl

Oh all this sounds so exciting! Yes, it actually is.

Living the future is enthralling, but in the process, we tend to ignore the reality. Why not but? 

Reality is such a show stopper in reality, and who wants to spoil the party. Let’s just ignore it.

Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love.
Leo Buscaglia

The true meaning and impact of love comes to the fore when we fear losing the one, or in fact, when we lose the one—reasons can be plentiful.

The mind knows but doesn’t accept and the heart feels but doesn’t approve, and then there is this sharp pain, right between the lungs, with every breath that we take in—those who have had it will surely agree.

Forever is not a word…rather a place where two lovers go when true love takes them there.
Unknown

In the process of understanding the nature of this immense pain, we realize that need, dependence, fear, loneliness—the list is eternal, all had come together, camouflaged as what we thought was love.

Love has no desire but to fulfill itself.  To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.  To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving.  
Kahlil Gibran

After this reality check, living appears to be the most difficult of tasks.

You go around and tell everyone, how pathetic you feel. No one understands though, what you are going through. Your heart sinks with every passing thought, and you feel like stopping your breath for the rest of your life. These sinking thoughts continue till your mind accepts the facts 

and your heart approves.

Love is like a roller coaster,

Once you have completed the ride,

you want to go again.

Unknown

In the next phase, you start distracting yourself from these thoughts, and focus on things that were distractions while you were in love. And that’s the best thing about human beings. They are hardcoded with an instinct to live. (Here too there are a few with programming bugs)

To love is to admire with the heart:
to admire is to love with the mind.
Theophile Gautier

So, if you don’t want to be destroyed in love, then understanding this code is important.

 “You can only love, the moment you try to possess or feel like being possessed, you fall prey to its tricks”

Something about love, despair, and life (As per the little experience I have):

Love appears in moments, how long can I hold a moment,

 as my moment fades, I yearn to catch sight or sound of you, 

to feel the surging of my heart erupt into joyous sounds of laughter.

Chris Watson

 “You aren’t there anymore....to listen to me about how bad I feel without you, which is fine as I never wanted to pass my pains to you, even when you were there with me. I just wanted you to be happy. I am just sad about still achieving my dreams and finding happiness in life, and not being able to share it with you. Oh, I love you so much, and that I'll always do.”

REGARDZ:

SUNNY DHANOE

2:25 AM